Stop comparing yourself to others

Stop comparing yourself to others

...Admit it you have done this in the past or the present and yes we're all guilty of wanting something someone else has, wishing we had the 'perfect' life they have. We have all longed - for what someone else has had or got! Yes the jealousy may have kicked in! The comparing is like flicking through pages in a book, going back to the past chapter, thinking over & over again about what you've just read! I mean that's not a bad thing when reading a book but it seemed right at this current time! But you get the picture here! What I'm trying to say is we flick through our life & back to theirs & think over what it would be like living their life! It's what you want isn't it? To damage your time, hurt yourself over and over again as you don't have a 'perfect' life that this person seems to have. They have everything you seem to crave, yes crave as it's like a addiction you're so hooked to the idea of the 'perfect' life that someone else has. Question is are you living yourself? Are you fulfilling your dreams right now? Are you working to where you want to be? If you're examining how someone's living their life over & over again then answer is no right now!

Right so let's sort this mess out right now! Are you being serious why are you comparing your life to others, it's bloomin ridiculous! I'm being honest here! Why would you want to be someone else? Or have their life? You see what you see on Social media, a pretty picture, a happy smile, things they own, the 'perfect' relationship. Yes it's lovely and good for them, they're lucky to have what they have but you don't know what happens behind closed doors! They could be struggling just like you wishing/comparing their life to others! I know right this sounds absolutely atrocious right now. What?! They want to live another life with all those beautiful things they have. Why would they do that? You ask yourself, but really it's a reflection of yourself, remind you of who else this sounds like? Yeah you! See what I mean why would you spend your time wishing you had something else when you've got what you need right in front of you, may not seem like it but you do. You're the one who can make things better for yourself why not start, errr like now?! Yes it will take time and hard work but in the end the hard work will all pay off and you'll look back and think "wow I really did this, it feels amazing" wouldn't that be ace right? You'll feel so good about yourself. Woooop! 

Let's talk now. Come on are you still seriously comparing yourself to others? You need to do you! Don't try and live another's life or waste time wishing you did. If you really want something, start working for it now. Do not I repeat, DO NOT COMPARE YOUR LIFE TO OTHERS!! Just no! Go chase your own dreams! Don't wait around, make yourself busy, get working hard. Do something that is for you.

I look at life like we're all a part of a book, we have our own chapters in life. Some will be amazing, others will be draining, heartbreaking making them challenging but you know what its your own chapters, your journey in life. Nobody else will live your life, or see things from your perspective. Don't you think its exciting having your own journey in life? Its unique, its your own story to share. Comparing your story to that other persons will destroy your own unique one. We don't want that to happen, do we now? Imagine having the same story as someone else its like the saying been there, done that, got the t-shirt, yep its nothing new. Would you honestly want that? exactly, change your own life you're in control. Make your life the very best, you only have this one. Make yourself proud. You'll be so happy when you do, trust me.

Be yourself and don't try to be someone else you're so unique and its so very lovely to see. 

With lots of love

Brontë

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